I enjoyed it. Have used this proposal on my cat too. But didn’t work.
Guys? Sorry that I’m that guy again… friendly reminder: you’re in the support thread…
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Some people understand your sense of humour and some don’t.
I usually laugh alone at my jokes or have to explain why something is funny to me.
I love puns. And cat cooler was really funny and harmless to me.
@theearlywalker I think I am in the right thread. I’m supporting @the_termin8r 'cause he feels his jokes are misunderstood.
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Looool LMAO that was a good one, honestly someone (new) looking for support will be more than confused about the last 20 or so posts…
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Yeah. And he blocked the chat, cause he doesn’t do such things.
So I can’t redirect the non chatty conversation. Sorry @theearlywalker
To that. I will probably soon come up with the next silly crisis, all back on track here. 
Hey guys,
I really am in need of some support.
There is this LPU soldier who isn’t at a good place right know.
I have his number and I do text him.
But I don’t get any response.
He is radio silent, just once when I was quite panicy he said sorry. And he weren’t into talking.
He didn’t say I should stop texting, so I don’t.
But I really could need some advice if my actions are right or if I turn into a crazy stalking b****.
Feel really alone in this.
When I read my last entry here I could just again
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I don’t think that you are acting wrong by keeping texting him. It’s better to show him that you are still here for him.
Then if he doesn’t respond, you can’t do anything for that so i think the best way to deal with it is to keep sending him one or two texts by day, just to remind him you’re still here for him.
Sending strength and support to someone is never wrong so don’t worry for that 
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first of all calm down Anna, from my experience inhere it take days sometimes to get answers and that is mostly not even related with you but for a lot of other reasons
Don’t worry too much about this soldier- he’s probably fine but can’t stay in contact atm- which mustn’t have something to do with you. Write a last post/msg/email to him and tell him you are there for him, to support him and wait now until he answers… and then just wait for a note
I know it’s hard to stand if things can’t be moved forward - but sometimes it needs time and you are allowed to work on your patience in these moments
Stay strong my dear 
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This 
I was waiting for @theearlywalker to finish because I knew she’d know what to say 
I’ll just add that there’s people who close off and heal in isolation-guys especially
It’s hard to understand from a caring perspective but it’s one of those times when we need to gauge and measure the person and the situation individually for them and not on what we would want 
sometimes the smothering feeling can be difficult to handle
I agree in sending a message to let them know you’re thinking of them, that you want them to be there when they are better but to keep fighting because they are really important to people especially you
Unless it’s a desperate situation where you truly sense something is off, then I would stay put and let them dictate the situation
There’s nothing wrong with a good morning, good night, I hope you’re feeling better, I hope you’re ok message on occasion but leave it open ended so they know you aren’t pressuring for their presence
It will be reassuring and it gives them the chance to dictate when they approach
Hopefully it shows you know they need their space but that they’re important to you
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Thank you @Lilyope @theearlywalker @framos1792
I don’t know how you get it every time!
Really!
Thank you!
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I have the feeling of rocks falling of my chest.
Should have done this sooner.
@framos1792 I just copied and past your words.
Thanks.
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i claim plaigarism! 
sending you all the patience i can i totally understand how… “tempting” it is to test your patience and force yourself to restrain from saying more or pushing buttons…i fail more often than succeed 
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I didn’t claim it was mine. Said it was from Sant Francisco.
That I tend to get so narrow inside. For all the trees, I see the wood no more.
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I’m in Sacramento
Eh? 
Very naturalistic 
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Seems to be just a typical German saying
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I was wanting to play it off haha
And agreed
And I knew that @framos1792 name is Fransisco. I played on the Saint course he everytime hit the mark.
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I think we all kind of naturally know that
Being unaware of something is different from acting on something you already know
And nobody wants to be known a saint everyone makes mistakes
What’s more…one bad advice can cancel out 1000 good advices in someone’s mind it’s why people usually stay quiet I suppose 
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Sorry. Really.
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No sorries needed 
To be continued on chat
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