Is she alright! 
Hope she is okay! Take care @turners34 , of yourself , family and mom. Sending big hugs to you both 
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I really hope your mom heals quickly and the pain disappears fast. Lots of love and hugs to you and your mom.
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So…the day I had to take my mom to the ER it was like I said because of low blood… i unfortunately also found out that she had a mass growing on the inside of her bicep that she had refused to tell me or anyone else about and had kept hidden for far longer than I could’ve imagined… the anemia part that day was the focus because it was serious but once that was under control I started tripping out about the mass because they did X-ray ultrasound and finally MRI and everything was turning out inconclusive as to whether it was cancerous, benign, or an untended cyst… it made me sick for these past couple weeks to have to figure out how to get her seen, they referred her to a specialist in San Francisco but insurance issues and a crap ton of other stuff was making it harder than it should ever be… finally Saturday I got the call that they wanted her there Sunday and they’d admit her into the hospital, the arrangement was made and I got her there, even then we went in and they turned us down saying they couldn’t do it there, the specialist wasn’t on site…hopes for a solution crushed again…we stayed in sf that day, honestly me thinking to make the best of the chance we had to be there… at about 8pm got a call from the hospital saying the specialist had found out they had turned her down and was requesting whether we could go back if somehow we were still in town, we went she was admitted and scheduled for biopsy yesterday Monday, after a few scares with things taking longer than expected they finally told us it turned out to be a benign growth and that they were removing it, i can’t even express how liberating it was to finally get good news about it and knowing she was going to be ok
It’s upsetting to know how difficult care is, it’s upsetting to know how long she kept quiet out of fear, it’s been upsetting to struggle to get anything done but right now I’m just grateful for all they did there, grateful that things turned out for the best, grateful we’re back home, and grateful for another day…
Now that I have good news and that I’m back home and things are calmer I had to share it…
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Yaaay, happy about the development bro! It’s hard to be in fear and unlucky then on top. It is so feelable how hard these weeks have been for you and your family and absolutely happy all came to a good end rightnow. You can be so proud on yourself- your mom sure is- and thankful- to have a son like you bro. And finally I am happy because of you, back here now more frequent again! 
And your pics look peaceful, making me feel your mood rn, enjoy and relax now, you deserve it!
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Happy to here all is back to normal and your mother is fine! 
the way you faced up the whole thing is admirable! 
Sun pics are awesome!! 
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I’m happy to see your mother is fine amigo!!! And yo are so strong! All in your family are so strong! Don’t be upset because your mother keep quiet… she didn’t want to worry you… mothers are like that. The important thing is you were there with her and supported her 
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Happy for you and your mother! And beautiful pictures too. A rising sun symbolising the return of prosperity 
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Your post bring so much suspense but hopefully that’s good news!
I’m glad your mother (and you by the way) will be fine.
And I love your pictures. It feels good to see you there again.
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Happy every thing is well with you and your mother sending you never ending love 
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It really is sick how hard it is to get care in this country. No, sorry, you’re not in this network so, we can’t see you. No, you’re primary doctor won’t give you a referral, cannot see you. Ugh, so upsetting. I’m glad you found out great news about it and that she’ll be ok! You definitely stayed strong through it all. Hopefully now things can get back to normal for you.
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I’m glad everything is going well, sending support to you and your mother! 
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That’s the best good news I’ve heard in all this week!!!
I’m happy for you both.
Excellent pictures! Where you took them? San Francisco?
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Thank you and thank everybody for the well wishes 
it’s meant a lot…
Yeah the pictures were from land’s end in San Francisco Sunday evening just before they called, San Fran is beautiful but not my kinda place to live 
haha
Here’s a few more:
The building is the conservatory of flowers…a big greenhouse
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Hey how everyone doing I hope everyone have been blessed so far. . I have been blessed so far I love my new state . It so much better here than NJ.
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Great news everyone if you have been here lately you know I have been though some hard times lately today I get home we were superied to find a 1100 dollar check in the mail
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Yaaaay 
Congrats!
I’m so happy for your mom @framos1792 , it finally got resolved. How is she now? Regenerated already?
And @turners34, what a happy day Where/who did it come from?
I’ve got some news about me too, not sure if good or bad, I’ve decided to write the updates here.
The muscle tensions are definitely gone today. I’m so glad and relieved that it was nothing permanent and the baby will be okay. However the high dose of magnesium along with some watermelon probably caused me urinal problems. Starting yesterday evening, I could not walk straight during the whole night because of the piercing pain in my left kidney. Drinking tons of water didn’t seem to help. At around 00:30 my husband made me a urinal tea. It is dangerous for the baby to drink different herbal teas, but I read that one urinal tea would not harm. I googled all the herbs, all but one were ok, the last one should be drinked only in small amounts during pregnancy.
It helped a little, I got some intermittent sleep and I can walk straight now, but I still feel some pain. My doctor works from 11:00 so I’ll have to wait one more hour, drink more water and go there. I hope they’ll examine me even though I’m not booked in advance and though the problems are no longer so acute. One problem goes, another one comes, oh well. Wish me luck.
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