It’s not true. Just you writing this and seeing how it touched you is helpful. You try to understand and be emphatethic, that’s the difference between the decent and the stupid guys. The stupid ones think only about themselves.
That’s totally true 
Yes he is, undoubtedly 
Yes, and since they are so hidden in their shell, they try to be unnoticed, it’s a bit harder, but as you say, not impossible That’s why I wrote “really big shovel”
I’m so happy you feel better now @danni1317 When my grandma died a year ago, I always felt it’s stupid to go see someone’s grave. Me and my father, we always said we want to be burried and let our dust be spread through the wind somewhere far. And if someone remembers, then let him or her, but we don’t need a grave.
But after she died, I felt I’ve lost so much and I didn’t know what to do. Going there to see her, it’s like she’s there somewhere, watching from above, listening, and I can talk to her. I never believed in such things but now I sort-of do, because it helps
Go for it 
) Just do what you love. Ignore the bad. To fight depression come and talk with people of this community. I know my words can’t be any help but still i am just a tag away if you guys need me for anything. Just here beside 
it’s an even better feeling seeing you gals cheer up 
thanks friend for ya kind words
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