Needless to say that I’d like my condolences to also be passed on as I can’t attend either.
Write what you would like me to print for you
@the_termin8r @evooba and @Honey8 you can write it here or my email zoey.hart@op.pl
@rorymcgarrett my message from the pic I posted on wa is fine. Thanks
Hi guys, has anybody else encountered any issues with people being generally unsupportive? Basically, I was away on holiday when the news broke on Thursday. I returned to work yesterday morning and walked in on some people talking about my posts on Facebook about how devastated I was, and how I should stop clogging up people’s news feed with videos and photos. I tried to not let it get to me, because I don’t like the people very much, but it has. I’m amicable, so always accept friend requests from colleagues and don’t delete because of the tension. But I’m still so angry about this.
Anybody got any advice?
Tell them to unfollow you, or unfriend you. I’ve always said that times of crisis show who your real friends are
I don’t want to rock the boat anymore, but I’m still sharing my videos, photos and quotes. I’ve just removed them from the people that can see them. I’m not letting them stop me from sharing his work, and what it meant to me, but I’m still so angry that people can be so spiteful.
I’m sorry to hear that
Its hard for some people to understand the way some people or things can affect your life without having even met them
Not to mention most of society has become quite superficial and self conscious about being slick
I can only say that if your posts and comments can reach just one single person they will have made the difference and ought to be important enough to let the rest of the people talk all they want
Plus, you know by looking here that you aren’t the only one coping, many here are doing the same
It’s not worth giving them power over you
Remember those that do care and it’ll cheer you up whenever it is they talk crap
thanks @rorymcgarrett . I have sent you an email.
Thanks for doing this dude. I will be there
I’m very happy about this, will be nice to meet again and I shall make a point of coming up and speaking to you when I see you!
If anyone can’t come to birmingham please message your cohost @harleenquin82 on twitter or Sarah Sag Aggers Aggarwal
She will be taking notes of the messages and writing them on pieces of A4 card which will be taken and placed with the flowers at the arena, we will try take photos of your message as much as we are able too!
This is why I don’t use Facebook, you end up connecting too people that you are not really that close too and sharing too much that there not really interested in and it sucks when it’s something that you are super passionate about.
I only created Facebook to organise the memorial, this is why I love twitter a lot more, because you can connect to people and groups that are in alignment to your passions, however I do worry about some general friends following me and seeing how much stuff I am tweeting lately.
My friends have been super supportive because they know how important this is to me, the general population and people I work with, i’ve mostly avoided mentioning it.
hello rory! in the post of the all memorials is not there written 28th friday. Is still there? thanks
Thank you. Much appreciated
Do you think we will ever get that happiness feeling back again when we think of the shows? I went to the 02 and Brixton and all I feel now about the whole thing is sadness
I still look at O2 arena with much love as it was my first LP concert and first concert in general. Brixton was the best night of my life and always will be. Bham I can’t bare to think about anymore…knowing it is their last show.
Maybe in time…
You’re gonna be looking back at the memories and remember what an amazing time you had and how much this band has done for you. All the people you met, the live experience, the love… it’s simply amazing.
Hi sorry I was away. I hope you joined the memorial. If not we are planning more meet ups.
I missed the O2 show through illness and was tempted to drive up to Birmingham bit uttered the horrible words I’ll catch them.next time
The Birmingham Memorial was incredible. It’s been a few days and its still in my thoughts throughout the day. So much love there, it was unreal. Everything is sinking in a little more now.