Don’t listen to them know in ur heart that ur stronger than anything that had happened to you! I’m here forbu if u need to talk💙
So since my brother has passed every Friday the 13th I get a star tattooed on me. This was my latest one.i had my fiancee write “stay” for me
It’s beautiful! Now you have something to look at if you feel really down A reminder to stay
I’m sorry your family is bringing up a painful past. Family should help raise you up not cause pain. But you have kept strong since your past even if you fell down a few times up until now. We are here to help pick you up when you fall though It’s what LP and Chester have always taught us You can keep strong through this Don’t let others bring you down I’m here for you too if you need support I hope things get better for you
The tatoo is so beautiful! And the word does give it every meaning, reminds you every day that you are loved
Wow, I didn’t know there was something like this walk, I’m proud of you for going there Did you get to know any people there that are like you?
Hold on Hilary! From my view, you have two options here: (1) further try to ignore your family and endure the pain, or (2) maybe just splash the truth right into their eyes. I mean, talking about your suicidal thoughts might help, even if you risk that they will look at you like you’re crazy. But whatever, it can’t be worse than it is right now, you’re not risking anything… Tell them to stop talking about your past completely because you have a hard time dealing with it by yourself. If they really love you, they’ll listen and stop.
If they’re bringing you down, try to be at home as less as possible and go out with your children. Try to make everyday program with them, focus on them completely. By making some program for them (and you both) your mind will be kept occupied and you’ll think about other things. Do small things for your children every day
Try to find something regular, like sports or something like that… Go with other people, friends. Make new friends. It helps.
Sending big hugs to you, you are loved
That is a cool tattoo it looks great on you it hope it helps u get though your brother death. Like u tell me stay storng I’m going to do the same thing. If i feel bad i will reach out to u i hope u do the same
So far i have got my mind at a little better. But I’m still going through some deep dark stuff and i try to not go there in my head because i know the demons are there waiting to take me down . So i work and go to the gym but when I am home alone i get into myself and stated to cry and get upset about everything.
It’s always the worst when alone I personally try to distract myself with watching movies or something But on a good note you aren’t keeping your sadness locked up. It’s good you are crying it out. I wish there was something I could do to help I suck at trying to help people even though it’s something I really want to do Just try to keep your head up. You are a strong woman. You can get through this We all go through struggles like this and it sucks but you can rise above it. Know you are worth it and you can get through it!
Thanks u for your kindness I have been thought a hell alot growing up. Bad things happen to me twice and i try to commit suicide 2 times. And i almost had that thou again but i keep thinking that i have to talk about everything to my lp family . And try to be storng.
I am so sorry for all you have been through Bad things shouldn’t happen to good people Please don’t ever make suicide an option. It just isn’t. I’ve been in that dark hole where I thought it was an option myself but it just isn’t. There are people that care about you and they love you. The LP family loves you because we get it. We have all been there in some fashion. You can get through it, it’s so difficult but I know you can do it
I wish i know about this lpu a long time ago. But I’m still happy to found it now. I gald that u are here for me. My dark place in my head is hard to go though. I feel good thst i can talk to lp family when i truly need to. I can’t talk to my family especially if I’m going through something that what me to end it all. But i got an upper hand lp family and chester.
I think you’re doing an awesome job at helping everybody on here out just the fact that you’re reaching out and being there for everyone is amazing, the simplest acts are many times most meaningful
@danni1317 I love the tattoo you’re gonna end up with more stars than the flag hehe I’m glad you’re doing stuff like the run, I hope all is well and see you soon!
I’m late to chime in this time but I think everyone has kind of gone through everything, I’d only add to remember that those bad times will go away just as fast as they come so long as you’re patient with yourself to ride those times out I hope that by now they’ve already started to wind down and you’re finding a positive outlook on things again
And hello @mishelka3 and everybody else I’ve missed haha
@arya_92 how’ve you been? I don’t think I’ve seen you around either hope you’re well too!
Hi, I’m okay. I’ve been so busy with work hope all is well with you!
Hi framos! How are you doing?
Hi Arya You seem stressed out, hope everything goes ok. If you have some time, give yourself a nice hot bath with nice music, it’ll help I’m sure
Can’t complain here (I could totally complain actually lol)
Same here, lots of work and been behind on other stuff and school work so haven’t been as active
It’d be nice to hear about your work stories sometime arya the social caterpillar I’d bet you have some interesting ones with the newish job haha
How are you doing mishelka? Is the lil munchikin on his way?
I’m ok, thank you I am still ill, but finally getting better today.
Munchikin I will know tomorrow, but it’s a long way to go even if it will be confirmed
You have all my best wishes and prayers and hopes that it all goes well and I shall always call him/her by the newly adopted nickname of munchikin hehe
My past didn’t work out but probably the one regret more than even fixing it, is not having had a lil kid lol so for the time being I’m the creepy baby excited weirdo
Awww, thank you Sure, you can call him/her that, it’s funny but cute
I am so sorry for that. But maybe you’ll get another chance, one never knows You have to hope
You’re not weird at all, it’s completely normal to be excited for kids I’m happy when someone’s happy with me I’m a little bit afraid (but really, just a little - after two years I’m much more excited than afraid) and having someone who’s excited with me helps to throw away all my worries
Hey now lady!!! What’s this baby talk here!?!
@danni1317 after two years of unsuccessful trying and one operation, we finally got to go to artificial babymaking. Tomorrow I’ll know if I’m pregnant If yes, we’ll have a small soldier in our LP family, like this one: