Oh wow. I didn’t recognize him
this pic is pretty bad. but it’s him. super nice guy
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That is a beautiful story 
I’m happy his song was/is so helpful for you during your dark times. It’s nice having a singer or band that you feel has either been through the darkness that many of us deal with or just to have someone write something that is so uplifting.
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yeah it gives me hope. I mean it is very uplifting song and since I can’t lisen to LP I have this song
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Beautiful story @rorybourdon that shows that a word, a smile or a song, can change everything! 
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how are you feeling now dears @rorybourdon and @hilaryfol 
You’ll be fine soon. Don’t worry! 
Just a bit while more bro… i’ll be there to give you the company
Hope it goes well. Let’s see… 
So happy to see that you’ve got something that takes you away from your depression That’s a very nice picture dear 
and the gift too! 
Yea … so true! 
@danni1317 , you doing fine these days?
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So it’s basically two weeks into new year and I am fine.
The year started very badly for me, but this thing opened my eyes. I am happy. I have been for the past two weeks. I left behind things and people that were bringing me down. I am starting new hobby even if it makes me wanna scream and throw stuff across the room (thanks @georkost). I am looking forward to the future, surrounded by people who care. Meeting new people, finding out new soulmates. On the 1st of January I was forced to close one chapter of my life, I didn’t want to do that, but it opened the new one. Maybe not all the new stuff are bad?
I hope this mood will last for a very long time.
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That is great news. I am happy you are doing better. You deserve happiness 
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Am so proud of you - long may it last!
But we’ll always be here - regardless… 
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Happy for you!
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Hey everyone. I’m okay so far. I’m going through something and i don’t know how to start this off. But here it is my boyfriend told me that his friend grandmom think that they are together and she told hem that she going to move out because her granddaughter told her that he’s moving in the house and take over the house. She doesn’t know that he have a girlfriend .Everyone think I’m his roommate. I don’t know what to do. This is one of the reasons why i have Depression and feel like I’m not worth anything.
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Talk to the guy and ask him why he’s not telling them the truth. Be honest. Just say that it is very hurtful to hear that as you are together. If he won’t do that he’s not worth you being with him. If someone’s actions are maing you depressed you should change that.
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And to be honest I have told hem to stop doing that but he told me he only say that because he don’t what them in his personal life. If that was ture he won’t have cheated on me with another friend of his that i knew and i babysit he’s baby form her.
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I would dump him. It’s better to be alone than in this relationship. Cheating? Nope. And if he’s not saying that you’re his girlfriend then he just want to get the other girl. Once a cheater always a cheater. You deserve someone better. Obviously I don’t know him but I know toxic relationships. It’s bad for you.
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I agree. He doesn’t sound worth the trouble. Everyone deserves someone who is proud to say they are with you. And he cheated? Would not stay, period.
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Yeah I kind of hinted about it before but I agree with the gals…a guy will say that thinking it leaves him options… a committed guy will be proud to say you’re his girl
You’re better than that 
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Dump his ass. If he’s not even willing to correct the situation, and is basically just playing along with this friend… Then he has no respect for you, as also indicated by the way he drives like a retard with you in the car. He has no regard for your life or the lives of others, and he sure as eggs doesn’t care for you the way he should.
Of course, this is just my opinion… You need to figure out what you want from life, and what you want from a partner. And then you need to act. If he meets your needs, then good. If he doesn’t… Then either change needs to happen, or he needs to go.
You need to be strong… Even though I know it’s hard, and you have plenty of other crap to deal with. You have to do this for yourself… Cos no one else going to do it for you… And you don’t deserve to be miserable or treated like a doormat.
Hugs @hilaryfol
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I wish I could say I am. But I’m sitting here at what should be the first step to my dream job (being a nurse) completely miserable because of someone who was supposed to be my friend is now the mean girl here… so now I get to watch everyone treat me completely different when she’s around …
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Awww nuuu…don’t let this get to you.
Unfortunately some people never grow up, every workplace has a diva, and an a-hole, and well…you just can’t escape them in life. All you can do, is do your best despite them.
If the rest of them are going to be chameleons and change their colours when she’s around or not - then shame on them - they obviously lack the strength. And, it sounds like really you haven’t lost much of a friend to be fair.
There’s not much to say that can make things better for you - other than we are here, and we aren’t chameleons, and be strong - this is your dream job…concentrate on being the best you can be.
Also - next time you get a chance…spit in her coffee… 
- ok, maybe not…but the thought might cheer you up.
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That did bring a smirk! Believe me I thought of it a few times! I just hate how I just had a nurse buy me lunch and tell me how happy she was to work with me, how it was refreshing to not deal with rudeness and attitude! Which felt really good! Then that very same nurse is laughing and joking with HER the diva! The very one she had so little good to say about…which you know would be fine…but now that nurse has hardly said a few words to me all night! It’s bad enough diva got this job before I did, they passed me up for her… . A few months later I finally had my chance. This job was my idea, my secret plan to move up in my field…She didn’t even want to stay in healthcare…now she walks around here like she’s a big shot…and pretends not to know me. She treats me like I dirt and I don’t even know why! From the moment I started here she has treated me this way…and now the others seem to bend when she’s around too
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