Good morning European soldiers! I just woke up and I don’t want to leave my bed. 
But I have to, because I have to work from 11:45 am to 20:20pm 
I hate working on Saturdays,the customers are so aggressiv and rude on these days. Let’s hope for the best.
Sending love and hugs to those who suffer or having a Bad time and to all others have a nice Weekend!
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Thanks guys @lpfan61 and @AJ_7…only 15 mins left til it opens…im hungry and no money on me…have to wait til I’m home 
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Good night guys 2:45 am here
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Good morning all (and good night for the others), we just took the breakfast at home… @OneMoreLight2017 i hope Your work Day will be OK, don’t let anybody get on Your nerves ! @all the others i hope you will have a good saturday
ANOTHER LONG POST BELOW.
Before reading:
- The next post explain what’s happening with me lately.
Three weeks since I had to temporaly go
Three weeks ago or so, I said I was going to “take a break” of the forum, but I have been here almost every day (in the last post thread, for those who hadn’t seen it)… It was my form to say “I am still here, I can’t cut the communication with you”.
Today I decided to come back to my normal status (participate in all the threads)… but I need to say some things about me first…
As I said in that time, I am passing for a very tough situation and… well… The matter is…that all my life I’ve been “acting according the situations” to the point where I have lost the control of myself, and lately I have been under an uncontrollable changing of emotions…
in a moment I am angry, in the next one I am laughing; In one second I am smiling, in the next one I’m talking about how I feel inside of me (I usually talk about I feel like [spoiler]shit[/spoiler]) and a lot of examples in that line…
… I left because I was feeling that each time I was here I couldn’t speak about other thing that wasn’t my depressive mood… I couldn’t hold on to be like that… Simply I hated it!.. I hate to talk about bad things and don’t chance them!
I’ve been going with the psychologist as I said… the main problem is that I have feelings towards a certain group of people that I shouldn’t have…
I feel the worst human being right now… There are times where I only pretend everything is ok, but the true is that I am not ok… and… I don’t want to worry all of you with this, because there is nothing you can do to help me… (Please don’t misunderstand me, I love your support, but I mean, sometimes I need someone beside me to hug me… and the distance between each other is [spoiler]bullshit[/spoiler]…)
Coming back at the main point… This mental problem affected my work… So, for prevention it, I had to start to find another job. The last week I was close to get one, but they never call me… However, in the meantime, I talked with my boss about my decision, and she said “It was ok… She went to looking for another teacher, anything, please let me know.”
About the job… It was Monday 20th where they told me I could apply to job, I had to be there at 14:30, so I had to ask for permission to my boss and she said it was ok. When I arrived at that place, they talked about general things and told me that in three days they went to call me.
After that I went to work and at the end of the day I talked with my boss, I told her “They would call me this Thursday (23th) to let me know if I obtain it or not.” That situation left us wondering what we were going to do each one, on the one hand, she had to see what she was doing if I left, on the other I had to be ready for the next Monday (27th) because, supposedly, that day I would start in the new job. Then we agreed that we would wait for me to inform her what was going to happen.
The Thursday came and I was a little anxious because that day I went to know my destiny, and whatever happened, I was going to be happy… In one hand, I could have a new job and earn enough money to publish my book, in the other I could stay where I was working and I felt comfortable. The [spoiler]damn[/spoiler] day was over and they didn’t call me (I suspected it) and I told it to my boss, she was calm and we didn’t say anything else.
This last week I went to work relatively thinking in an optimism way… Until yesterday (31th) when, at the end of the day, my boss told me that she had talked with the other person to start to work in September… So yesterday was my last day at that work… and… I felt really bad and desperate in that moment, I didn’t expect that…
So… to finish this “testament”… I have no work, I feel really out of myself and the only thing I can do now is look forward and feel safe that I won’t be able to do something wrong or stupid…
With that said… I just want to let you know that I am not ok at 100%, but at least I can stay over here without being sad or depressive all the time. This next Monday I have the next appointment and in the afternoon I have to move my [spoiler]ass[/spoiler] and find a way to have the control of my life…
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Thank you for being so honest with us… I’m sure everybody appreciates it…
Don’t want to say silly things to you… I just hope that you’ll be in control of your life soon and as always I’m here if you want to talk…
Don’t blame your boss for her decision… she was sure you got the other job and anyway now you have time to look well for other possibilities… 
Lots of sunny hugs to you!! 
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Thank you for sharing your story with us.
Don’t worry you won’t be misunderstood, we can get that feeling too.
I’m sending you the strength I saved from my Friday perfect day (there is some Mike’ strength so take care of it as much as you can 
).
We believe in you, you can find an other job. I’m crossing my fingers for monday, and until that day just take care of yourself, you’re worth it.
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@OneMoreLight2017 I feel you, weekends are not my favourites either.
@IronSoldier16 stay strong!!
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Bonjour a tout le monde… ( hope that’s at least partly right for …: good morning world 
@alz89 hope you can enjoy the rest of your day and have a good breakfast/lunch now… @OneMoreLight2017 thanx and I hope you have only nice clients today dear. Last but not least: I know you struggled a long time with the decision to leave your old work and now it’s finally decided- however… but you are FREE now… in many diffrent ways dear bro @IronSoldier16 - and I know it alreafy- it’s a change to the better- because it was a big part of becoming depressed- the work there. Without diggin deeper into it, I just want to tell you I’m happy you’re back at your full potential here in our family- we charge you - and although it’s only virtual- it’s powerful 
- every ending is a new beginning and we are here to go all the way with you - always… we have your back! Be sure about that! 
Ot: last day at the beach - and noooo 
it’s not boring 
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@IronSoldier16 stay strong
If you need some one to talk to I will be here for you
Sending you love and strength and love form Ohio
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It’s right!
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Next Tattoo Project:
including the “announcing doodles” for the shows in
-Paris and Vienna (the shows i will see)
-I didnt do offenbach (cause im too bad ad painting)
-will add colors in the next step
Sure its the first try…will do it all again and delete the mistakes
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I can’t wait to see the final result!
Mike arrival in Moscow is soo crazy!
OT: going to watch Netflix series
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Stay strong @IronSoldier16 we are here for you if you need to talk or anything.
OT: playing on the PS4
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Looking good 
Thanks for keeping us updated @IronSoldier16. Like others have said, we are always here for you and want to support you in any way possible!
This week I’ve been learning new songs on guitar, including Guilty All the Same and Savior and House On Fire by Rise Against. I can sort of play the intro riff of GATS, but the other riffs are still very difficult. The two Rise Against songs are easier. Either way, having so much fun doing it!
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Well done!!keep it going!! 
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Looking even better now keep it up!!
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