Remind yourself why it didn’t work out the first time…will that be any different or will those issues still be there? That’s a starting point… best of luck to you and I hope you figure out what you want 
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Aww - sooo cool! Grats @hilaryfol - see how life goes… if you open up, opportunities and chances come 
, as for your decision: I agree with @lpfan61 and @framos1792, no need to rush nothing, consider pro/contra on a list you can write, and be honest with yourself- cause it’s a big step and pretending things are easy makes no sense. After you know what your issues are- ask him for a talk, consider your issues with him- maybe you need to do this talking several times. You will feel when the time is right to make your decision then- cause your belly will let you sense it! Good luck Hilary 
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This is your gut reaction - listen to it.
If you are confused - wait until it become clearer
If you feel you are being rushed - stop - think - slow things down.
Take your time, to make the right decision for you and your young ones. Nothing else matters…
HE can wait…if he cares for you - HE can wait…
@RoryBourdon - everything @mish3lka said … AND… your boss is a c*^k smoking a*% bandit who obviously has a very small d*** and doesn’t get ‘any’ at home - so tries to make up for it by being the bully at work. That is all he is. Don’t let that piece of monkey turd throwing peanut skull get to you…if I was there, man…there would be hell to pay… Build a wall to protect yourself from his scumbucket ball sagging ways - a wall that he can’t even touch cos it will disintegrate his a-hole into dust…and whenever he talks…imagine me behind him mimicking him acting like the degenerate duck pooping pond sucker that he is…and laugh - even if you feel like crying…LAUGH…cos he will not get why you are laughing, and it’ll freak him out…and that, in itself, will make you smile. 
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@hilaryfol Totally agree with @lpfan61 @framos1792 @theearlywalker and @neeksnz , it’s great knowing you’re fine so take your time and listen to your heart. 
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I just want to say right now, I love you Chester.
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We all love Chester! I’m sure that he is looking down at us with a smile on his face!
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Hello my lp family i what everyone to know that yesterday i when to the movies with my son’s and my ex he came down to my dad house . My dad and my ex had always a good friendship together . But when he came over it was so amazing to see hem and to see my dad and hem getting along together.
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Been thinking about posting this for a while now. Everyone deals with this situation in a different way. #MakeChesterProud
You’re pretty ! (And not fat at all!!) I want to go to the sea now. 
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Very nicely done!
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Very nice photo’s!
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Hey everyone i have to say to @RoryBourdon I love your picture they are very nice. I what everyone to know that my depression has been a little bit better then last time . I’m just what u to know that I’m taking Things step by step closer to a new life
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@RoryBourdon doesn’t realise how beautiful she is. Which is dumb. Especially when she says she’s fat - cos next to her, I’d look like elephant…so hullllllooooo. I’ll give you fat…
@hilaryfol so good to hear you are feeling a little better. You are working really hard at change, and this is the result! It won’t always be easy, and you’ll have moments where you will regress, but it’s important to remember as long as you keep moving forward, the good moments will last longer and longer Keep it up. And stay tuned in to yourself!
I dunno why, but I’m exhausted. It doesn’t matter what I do (or don’t do)…I just feeling like I’m hitting a wall. There’s never enough time to do everything I need to do. And when I do get time to do stuff, I feel like I’m just faffing about doing nothing. Today didn’t help - lost an entire day to a stupid workshop, which could have been done in half a day. So…yeah…I just keep going…i’ll either crash into a wall, or I’ll find my rhythm again, and things will be sweet.
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Oh…I just figured out why…Valentines day…in 1.5 hours…
If I see any PDAs…I’m going to hurl… because I’m jealous and twisted.
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Big hugs to you dear and I know this feel you describe very well 
- you are not alone, there are phases in life where we just have to close our eyes and march on- no matter what it takes. I know after a well deserved break you hopefully have in the nearer future, you will feel and see things diffrent again. It’s been a lot that you‘ve been trough the last weeks and it’s normal to feel exhausted rn. When is your next break from work? And look for sth that you can gift/do for yourself - as selfreward and to keep yourself motivated- and last but not least: be aware how great you managed everything ( the heavy days at work, your friends illness and everydays life) and hug yourself for this great effort,
And as for valentines day: this comes from the bottom of my heart to a person that is adorabably heartly, motivating and funny, generous and selfless, you!!
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY @neeksnz
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I know how you feel. hugs
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We all have to stop calling ourselves fat. Everyone’s beautiful.
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I always thought Valentine’s day was the 14th?
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