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#1090

Wow @RoryEvans , what an as*****e! :rage::face_with_symbols_over_mouth: I would kick him in the ass and balls right there standing if he’d say something like that to you again! :angry: I mean it, I did matrial arts!!! :man_dancing: You can tell that to him, I will come to kick him in the face and that stupid mouth that does not know where are the boundaries of professional relationships are!!
You need to defend yourself against this harassment - do they want to have your condition on their conscience? Please hang on, be strong and stand up straight even though they laugh at you. The problem is not in you, it’s in them. You are a better person than any of them, think of that when they’re making fun of you and laugh at them in your mind. You can’t get underlayed by this like that, challenge your inner anger to endure this! :face_with_symbols_over_mouth::face_with_symbols_over_mouth::face_with_symbols_over_mouth:
I’m sure you’ll find some work better than this, just hang on! :heart: :hugs:

He’s completely not worth it!! None of them are! They are not worth any of your tears, nor a bit of your attention at all. If you want, you can be angry - they are totally worth your anger! And anytime they say something like that to you again, just start laughing right into their eyes, like it’s the stupidest joke anyone ever told, this is what they deserve!

:blush: :blush: :blush:
I’m fine, enjoying the evening and drinking milk :milk_glass: :slight_smile: You? Hope everything ok :slight_smile:

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#1091

Oh such a big nice inspiring good … umm…lol. nice post friend! :neutral_face::grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes:
Yes i am fine as well! :smiley: Awessoomee actually

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#1092

Yeah, well, I’m a calm person, but I can be explosive sometimes, mainly when it’s about someone hurting my friends like that! :angry: :volcano:

I’m glad :slight_smile: What about your art? I saw your bird in the other topic :slight_smile:

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#1093

Oh don’t worry i am the same. :blush: And we should be like that. Rebel wrong :sunglasses:

Yes i was making one… but mom said study time. I don’t know when I’ll complete that. But yes will post a writing soon in creations thread

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#1095

Go to see in other places, other apartments or wherever and ask them if you can stay with they a few days while you find another apartment/house. Once you have done that, leave the work and go for other better. That’s the easiest way to stop this abuse.

#1096

Yeah, it’s a syndrome of as*******e bosses. He’s not worth your tears Rory, just think about something else, think about how you’re waltzing out of this place. Or just do it, you do not deserve this.

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#1098

No you’re not and you don’t have. It’s just God putting these as*****s in your life so you’d overcome that fear of yours. Take it as a challenge. You can do this, just try to imagine them something funny, wearing bunnies or anything. When he speaks to you, or even looks at you, try to imagine the funniest thing you’ve ever seen. You’ll laugh in your mind and don’t think about how irritating they are. They don’t reach even to your toes. Or just imagine Rob everytime, I know you love him honey :heart: :slight_smile:

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#1101

You say you’re not gonna fight
'Cause no one would fight for you
And you think there’s not enough love
And no one to give it to
And you’re sure you’ve hurt for so long
You’ve got nothing left to lose
So you say you’re not gonna fight
'Cause no one would fight for you

You say the weight of the world
Has kept you from letting go
And you think compassion’s a flaw
And you’ll never let it show
And you’re sure you’ve hurt in a way
That no one will ever know
But someday the weight of the world
Will give you the strength to go

Hold on, the weight of the world
Will give you the strength to go
So hold on, the weight of the world
Will give you the strength to go
So hold on, the weight of the world
Will give you the strength to go
Just hold on, the weight of the world
Will give you the strength to go

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#1102

Good morning family i what tell you all. I had the best time yesterday i when to the Philly car show with my family it was the best day ever .

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#1103

Glad to hear that! You’re starting to live your life full! :slight_smile::sun_with_face:

#1104

Rory, I just repeat what I wrote above: They are NOT worth it. Focus on your work in order to survive but ignore them. You must.

First off - you need to start respecting yourself. If you don’t, then you can’t expect it from the others. If you start to accept yourself and perceive yourself as a valuable human being, it will change in time. Maybe not in this job, but it will.

And start to think more about yourself. This all usually happens when you do everything to make others happy, when you’re “too good” to people that don’t deserve any of it. And it is ok to do things for others, but only unless it’s comming back in some way. If it’s not - or worse, just like in your case - it’s comming back bad, then you need to stop by the first sign. If you see that you’re doing everything to be better and no appreciation comes, then just stop overworking because of them. You won’t do something in time, so what - they will say something either way. Don’t give a damn. And do everything because you want it, but don’t do it to please them. It’s just like with our mothers. You can do whatever you want, it will never be enough, never be good enough, just because you can’t change her. So stop doing it for her - believe me, it works! Do it because you want.

I won’t repeat what I wrote above. Start from yourself - I know it’s hard because your brain tells you the exact opposite, but you need to try to accept yourself. Nothing will change unless you do that.
Don’t believe everyone else is happy. Even if they look happy on the outside, everyone has their secret life and secret battles they need to find. They might have a family and a good job, but maybe their wife’s cheating on them. And everything can be lost any time - both family and money and job. And family is the most vulnerable of the whole list. So just calm down, it’s not the worst that ever happened, imagine the poor babies in Africa :slight_smile:

I know you are, but I believe it will get better. Just don’t stop trying, send your CVs everywhere. You need to leave this job, the sooner the better. It’s toxic for you.

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#1105

my internet glitches atm very often- the post above was double posted

#1106

Happy to hear that you are happy cuz happyness causes happyness :sunny: Enjoy your breakfast @hilaryfol

#1107

Glad to hear that! :smiley::sparkles::hugs:

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#1108

Yes I am OK

#1109

Currently recovering from a bad car accident :frowning:

#1110

I am so sorry. Are you alright? :cry: I hope your recovery is quick :heart:

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#1111

I hope you recover quickly :muscle::heart:

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#1112

Thanks guys! Yeah I’m okay just minor cuts and bruises and I possibly might of fractured my hand :confused:

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#1113

I wish you a good recovery. :pray: Take care of yourself.

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