It’s a easy word to say, but a hard thing to do. Accept.
In your life things happen. Something’s are good, some really bad. The easy things are easy to move on. The bad things are harder. You have face them and sometimes you don’t want to, you want to avoid it. But you can’t. It is there, like a wall you run in to every moment. You can’t climb the wall, you can’t walk pass it. It’s there, facing you. You don’t know what to do. You get sad, or angry, or depressed. The moment you feel that, it is the only emotion you feeling. You want that feeling to be gone. But you don’t know how.
You are searching for answers. What do I need to do? What is it what I can do?
When that moment comes. The best thing is accept it. Accept that things go the way it needs to go. Its hard to accept it. But it’s the only way to move on. When you come to a realization to accept it, the wall slowly getting smaller. You can see the otherside of the wall. When you finally accept the thing that is happening to you, the wall is small enough to get over it and to step over it. You can move on.
Accept things is hard. Something someone said to you, or did to you. Or the way life/people treat you. You don’t want that. But (and this is the hardest thing) you have accept it. Only then you can move on.
We don’t know why people or life treat you that way, maybe you don’t know it to. But talk about it. And understand it. Maybe then the wall slowly becomes smaller.
It only makes you stronger when you can overcome your demons, overcome the pain, overcome sadness, overcome the depression. It makes you stronger. And you are stronger then you think.
It’s okay to feel sad, or unhappy. You are a human and humans have feelings. Just don’t give up easy. Fight it and overcome it!
The life you are living, more walls will come, that’s for sure. But don’t forget who you are and where you are coming from! Every wall that you have to face, learn from it and take it with you to the next wall. The next wall that you have to face again will become easier to get over it.
And if you feel down, talk with someone about it. They can help you or let you see a different side of the feeling you are going through. They are people who want to help you! Maybe someone close to you or a expert. If you talk about it, you are already making the wall smaller. Heal from it.
Don’t shut yourself out! You are stronger then you think.
Accept. Easy word to say, hard thing to do.