I’m pretty sure he was just referring to the fact that you said you would never go after a married man. Being unaware that he is married and flirting with him is different than if you were to flirt with him knowing that he was married (not that you were flirting with him, just for the example). Flirting while unaware is just playful, but flirting knowing that he is married is looking for trouble. Again, not saying you were flirting with him, but I think what @framos1792 was saying applies to if you were.
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Hm. I’m probably just to naive.
For me, doing something with a married man is so no. That yes a little flirting seems ok. Feels safe. Cause no way someone would act on it.
Am I totally wrong with this?
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I guess I’m not too out there when it comes to feelings and relationships, so I would never flirt with someone in a relationship (not that I’ve ever flirted before 
). I would think that it could be taken the wrong way and cause problems. But I know some people who are more playful and outgoing in that regard and would be totally fine with it. I think it just depends on who it is.
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@chigokurosaki and I was, oh may, now Im in trouble. But that’s
@jrtrussell that’s the thing with flirting. Some are real naturals in it. I’m not. If I find someone interesting, I can’t even look in that direction.
And the penetrant guys as a girl, you can’t flirt just a little. You always have to hammer them away. So I flirt when I feel safe, nothing will happen, just talking fun. And ja, can bring trouble.
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Everybody gone now?
I can’t quite give it a rest.
Looked it up, ca every fifth person cheats on his partner. 25% man, 15% women. And that was the nice statistics.
And I get roasted for little flirting.
Cause for me, the horrible part is the lying and cheating.
Not being honest with your partner, that’s what breaks a relationship, causes the pain.
That’s wild. I would never guess it was that high. Too many people are unfaithful 
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Ja. Ja.
I know, I probably should give it a rest.
But just one example for safe flirting with married man, so you see what I mean.
Yesterday evening we were standing outside, and I was a little tired moaning. So my brother in law hugged me. I hugged beck and said: “Oh, I so missed this!”
He said: “Oh, you weren’t touched enough lately!” And he intensified his hugging and stroking. So I wrapped him harder and said: “Just so you know, I don’t do married man!”
My sister meanwhile cracked up in laughter.
So, as you see. Intense, very comforting for me and nothing inappropriate with it.
Yes, I am a person who flirts more when I feel safe. But I also have a strict conscience. And I talk immediately and very clearly when I have the feeling something isn’t clear in a situation. Totally ignoring all the damn shame feelings that come with it.
Don’t worry. Everything is fine with me.
Everyone is different.
I have this problem that I think too much - analize how the other person may react on what I say or do. And it makes me hold back. One message - no response - stop!
And you are spontanious!
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Gucci Gang
Pretty quiet on here today
I don’t know. Prob out somewhere balling out on someone
oki
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You don’t seriously believe that chief is real do you? It’s obviously Mr. Sushi here.
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Yeah I know
dang chief, I don’t believe ur real
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Here you are
he hasn’t embraced you yet my guy
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